Let talk about fakiness.
Hey guys, I’m Temi Badmus, no need for unnecessary introduction since a huge number of you are my readers, I have gotten lots of emails from a lot of my readers, from my blog, and Narialand…
👀 Some of you are worried that I have not been writing for a while, and some few people among my readers feels I’m just been lazy so I decide to do some long write up, 😂, I’m not been lazy guys! ☺
Well, you know I’m in my finals, so it’s really hectic and stressful, trying to figure out life and making the right decisions, we are leaving school soon, I’m trying to figure out people I need to put in my life, those that needs to be out of it also, cos from this stages, there are some friends that might end up a bondage to one’s life and dreams.
In my article today, I will love to discuss fake ness, I have been seeing status of people on WhatsApp lately , I often see friends, and foes posting about fake ness, fake friends, fake this, fake that, I’m not the type that likes bringing my business to the public but let me share a little with you.
Everyone in this world is fake to some extent, the bitter truth is, almost everyone has that one person they can’t be fake to, so if you happen to have that one person, just keep them.
And before you start saying people are fake, check while you are in relationship with people you walk with, because a large number of people who often encounter fake ness with people just want to pass time then you get hooked in something that looks like friendship, Alas! 😉 you end up seeking commitment where it can not be gotten that’s another article for another day
Everyone is looking for a friend, who can love them, keep their secrets, weep their tears, make them feel better and the truth is, there is always one person who is created as a partner to do that, and most time they don’t have to be a lover, they are just some good friends, some perfect brother, or sister, an elderly person, some guy or lady who has good experiences with life, someone who have good understanding of the word of God or someone who just would put themselves in your shoes, who just understands you more than you could imagine, a typical example is my best friend “Oluwa Babatomiwa Yisa ” he might not be kind to other people but definitely won’t treat me like them, he would move mountains for me and trust me, I don’t take it for granted.
I’m writing this because, I think we are filling our vacuum which is remaining for good friendship as void because we believe everyone is fake, for example, I had a lady I used to be close to for about five years or so, so some few months ago, I realised she is not someone who can handle great success of her friends, then I moved on, I’m not an enemy but at the same time I’m not her friend anymore. With that action someone can say I’m a fake friend too, because I could easily move on, so at this stage of life, you really need to consider what you see as been fake in the attitude of humans
But the truth about fake ness is, everyone is fake to some extent but you just need to find someone whose fake ness is genuinely to some extent, Some people are fake but they still got you, while I will advise on fake ness, I will also advice you, if you close to someone who feels they have a lot of people as friends at their discharge, that’s the greatest form of fake ness you might want to stay away from, because these are the kind of people who will actually and almost add no value to your life either as friends, course mates, friend of friends, intellectually, morally, or in any ways
So in order not to hurt yourself, you need to find that one person who is not fake enough to discharge you at any time, there is always that one person for everyone.
For me, that Friend who is never fake at anytime is Victory Emeh and Oluwo, Babatomiwa Yisa” and I’m enough with them.
I believe life will be more comforting when you understand this.
But in the long run, you just need to believe everyone can be fake, then take a strong hold for yourself
Drop your views.