*You are the Cause of Suicide; you killed them.*
I know everyone wants to write or read something, either against rape or suicide. We are posting everywhere – “Suicide is not the option “, yet daily we make them do it.
The permanent solution is most times not the best option… We’re writing all this shit everywhere, trying to teach people how to face their pains, their fears, their doubts… I Temi Badmus, am going to write about that same shit today, I will write the truth which will sting you. I say you killed them!
Some of you are hypocrites, yes you parents and you also make your children grand rapists.
What about teaching your kids not to be dicks?
What about teaching your kids to know when to keep their mouth shut?
What about teaching your loud kids some other kids across street have phobia for noise; phobia for been touched and phobia for been judged?
How about looking your child in the eyes and say “This is Wrong” and giving that child reasons why it is than saying “This is wrong, don’t do it again OK? ”
Few months ago, a final year student committed suicide, and everyone started writing “Suicide is not the option.”
What about the society letting lecturers know that there are certain words you ain’t expected to tell students?
What about teaching your girl child to learn to always mind her business?
What about blending with 21st century and teaching your child how to move when dressed in the the new “world’s clothes” so it won’t turn sexual – you will agree with me that 99percent of the clothes girls wear from 5years these days are sexual compared to the 90’s below….
I once had a friend who almost committed suicide because everyone never believed a part of her story, so I stood up listening to “Prayer for me by Kirk Franklin daily,” standing in gap for her, and with me and some other good people she has been able to face life amidst the agony and we are still following up on her.
What about also teaching your girl child that she doesn’t need to be close to everyone if she feels she is “Miss popular” who every ants and elephants want to be friends with?
What about teaching her that some hearts are fragile?
What about starting an action against “How the society judge people?”
Some people kill themselves because of what the society does or not do.
What about teaching your kids to always find people who can do good when they are too low?
Depression starts when your mind is in the same level as animals, that moment when you can’t make proper decision.
A forty year old man committed suicide, someone said it’s because he never had hope or dreams for life, life was not important to him they said, what about teaching people around you to keep quiet when they have nothing good to say?
Let me tell you something you probably don’t know. In the university, a lot of kids think of committing suicide daily, sometimes just because your kids have bad mouths or perform actions that should not have been done if you had taught them to be better.
Why not teach people that the world may not accept you anyways, why don’t we teach people that you don’t need plenty people on your side, you just need few good people.
Why not teach some fathers not to say what they can’t say to their children to other people’s children?
Why not teach some mothers, that not only the child that comes out of their belly should be loved by them?
Instead of writing stories on why suicide isn’t the best option why not teach the world at large that judging people is not your duty, you are far too dirty, too unimportant to do that if you can’t love them thoroughly.
If everyone picks a part… Why not let’s tell ourselves to act right in all you do because You are the reason why someone out there will never or will ever think of committing suicide.
Every person we have lost to suicide starts with your actions or in-actions…