Fame seems to be the other of the day, I have met a lot of people in Nigeria who do not care if they are affecting life positively or not. Their major aim towards everything they do is always about themselves, and those made learn about most of them and I realised there is a difference between an ambitious person or a person with vision.
A person can be ambitious and not have vision, but it is usually rare to find a vicious person, Who is not ambitious.
I will be discussing five dissociative abilities you need to watch whenever you are with your ambitious friends.
1. They are always selfish.
I said earlier that ambition is different from vision. A person with vision always consider other people, I mean if it is about vision, the good of others are put into consideration, people’s feelings and thoughts are considered . A person with vision will carry the congregation along for their own good, while an ambitious person carries the congregation along for his or her own selfishness, he or she will stop at nothing to achieve something. They go as far as hurting others just to achieve their goals.
They believe life moves and no body is too big or too good to hurt.
2. Ambitious people are never loyal.
I have met a lot of ambitious people, they are never loyal. They do not keep friendship that needs strong ties, if they end up keeping one, it is always like the game of politics (it can end anytime) Eg is someone like Linda ikeji, president Mohammed buhari, these people are ambitious by career.
Their career and who they stand for demands them to be ambitious, it demands them to hurt others, demands them to chase after fame, it demands them to hurt others without considering how these other people at Mercy people feels. Though there are people who are naturally ambitious by nature. They just do not believe anyone deserves their loyalties and of course, life is not a place to start considering others and hurt yourself.
3. Ambitious people mischance influence with affluence.
While I was growing up, one person I love listening and watching was myles munroes of late memory. From what I learnt from him, I realized the world is comprising of people with affluence but no influence for example is the Senate president of Nigeria (Senate Bukola Saraki) Who is highly wealthy but has added no positive influence to the world at large. It all started from when he wants the power, money and fame. Thanks to God, he was hardworking and he has be prepared to be successful, which is something I admire about him. But adding no value.
He is not loyal to anyone talk more of him adding values to them.
4. Ambitious people often hate corrections.
This is one major problem about ambitious people, they do not like correction. Most times there not liking corrections is not because they are rude, arrogant or unfriendly, it is due to the fact that they already had their path planned.
Anyone correcting is like addressing them away from who they are and what they want to achieve, this is one of the reasons why ambitious do not often have friends or close ones around. They keep telling people “I do not Want problem, I prefer to stay on my own” some even go as far as saying “I prefer to stay away from people “mean while they prefer to stay from corrections just to keep their flaws.
5. Ambitious people result to insult as defence.
Have you seen celebrities whose took to social media to blast their fellow celebrities?at some worse Scenario, they might take to their media pages to blast a fan who said something unusual about them.
I read an article few years back and it says
” People with low vision always result to insult at every fight, ambitious people always result to violence while people with vision wants to listen and help others. Gentility is the only rod that holds the pillar of a man with vision ”
It was later after some months I understood what the writer meant by this. Ambitious people always result to insult as a form of defence, they believe that is the only weapon they can use to defend themselves and this is one of the reasons why you see that some celebrities do not have the time to tolerate insult, they can not let go.
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