Sex is a hot topic these days – but perhaps not in the way you might think.

In gender-equal Sweden, women’s health and women’s bodies are increasingly on people’s radar – the natural way, not the Photoshop way. 
In countries like Nigeria, it is most likely to get sex for free on a daily bases even if you don’t demand for it. I’m not talking about making love, the copulation that occurs between married couple. I’m talking about teen free sex. Having read a lot of books on sex, I am seeing a lot of reasons the societies itself are the cause of many free teen sex issues we are encountering.
Societies contributes to teen free sex in many ways . I will be discussing five ways.

1. Distribution of Golden circle.

Many institution preaches abstinence, yet they preach safe sex. Why can’t we have a standard rule we need to follow is it abstinence or safe sex?
Instructions will distribute packs of golden circle to students, who mostly are teens. What do the Institution wants them to do with it?
Eat it for lunch I guess. Lol
Then we keep blaming the teenagers, for having sex, getting pregnant, having babies that they are not capable of taking care of.
The society has it major role to play.

2. Inadequate sex education.

each year, U.S. teens experience as many as 850,000 pregnancies, and youth under age 25 experience about 9.1 million sexually transmitted infections (STIs).[1,2] By age 18, 70 percent of U.S. females and 62 percent of U.S. males have initiated vaginal sex.[3] Comprehensive sex education is effective at assisting young people to make healthy decisions about sex and to adopt healthy sexual behaviors.[4,5,6,7] No abstinence-only-until-marriage program has been shown to help teens delay the initiation of sex or to protect themselves when they do initiate sex.[8,9,10,11] Yet, the U.S. government has spent over one billion dollars supporting abstinence-only-until-marriage programs.[12] Although the U.S. government ignores it, adolescents have a fundamental human right to accurate and comprehensive sexual health information. For countries like USA whose sex education level is still something to write home about, we have a lot of teen’s life been jeopardized through sex. What about countries like Nigeria, Kenya South Africa where sex education ain’t focused on duely. Of course what you need to expect is teen free sex. What I’m saying is the society should put more effort into sex education.

3.Increased in production of contraceptives.

This generally goes to the female teens. A lot of contraceptive are been produced monthly for safe sex? Permit me to ask if the contraceptive are the married or the unmarried?
Majorly it is for everyone and the large percentage of people using contraceptives are the teenagers. What has the society as a whole done about it?
There are about 15 different types of contraceptives which allow you to enjoy sex without the risk of getting pregnant.

These birth control methods include: condoms, the diaphragm, the contraceptive pill, implants, IUDs (intrauterine devices), sterilization and the morning after pill. So why would society keep blaming the youth for going astray when they have decided not to help them in the right way. I feel contraceptive should not be sold by just any pharmacist. There should be certain pharmacist who are obligated by law to protect youth and teen sex life.

4. Gender inequality.

Right from the ground state, women has been substituted to a sex partner. Imagine a young lady who grow up under a family where the marriage is a sexually abused one. She will definitely grow up to feel free teen sex is a normal thing every child does. So my point is what is the society doing about marriage abuse that’s caused by gender inequality. I feel everyone should have the same right. We all colonised the society together so why is one person’s right greater than the other. In all of this, female teenagers suffer more. Male teenagers from an abused home can become a drug addict but the probability of a female teenager from an abused home to become a free teen sex giver is very high.
Society should let us tackle gender inequality in the right manner.

5. Weather condition.

The concept of warmth is associated with intimacy. Moderate heat may well make people more friendly and open to connecting socially, which, unsurprisingly, may lead to all kinds of other connections. A research was carried out some years ago on human sexuality and weather.

The researchers found that men’s attraction to women’s faces did not change during the course of the year.

However, their attraction to women’s bodies did.

They reported noticeably increased levels of arousal over the more revealing pictures in the months of December, January and February – the winter months – than they did in the three summer months of June, July and August.

Furthermore, men who were in the same romantic relationship over the course of the entire study reported similar fluctuations in how attracted they were to their partner. Specifically, men thought their lovers were hotter in the winter than the summer. What I feel is if our weather is been considered and research are been done to help teenage curb sexuality arousal. It will do the world a huge favour.

By:Temi Badmus

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me. Connect with me on LinkedIn


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