So Sad! The Story of an Impotent Nigerian Young Man Will Melt Your Heart

A 24-year old man has been diagnosed of
impotency and he is currently at the verge of
taking his life due to the frustration of being
Read the young man’s touching story below:
While growing up I felt so different and did
things differently. Naturally I am an introvert,
my class mates in sec school would say I have a
unique way of doing things.
I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability
to control how I feel generally. I am very
handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw
themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist
certain temptations was because I had self
control. Growing up in a Christian home their
are things we don’t ask mom and dad, I would
look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller
scrotum but I didn’t feel something was wrong
with me.
All these years I never understood I had a real
problem. Am all grown now but I can’t keep a
relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke
about how unlucky I was with finding a good
date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving
and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs
without s*x. It wasn’t a problem for me I don’t
know what s*x feels like but it was to her and
she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I
don’t and she began to wonder if I was a man.
First time we tried sex I couldn’t get erection, I
felt it was anxiety and she was supportive.
Second and third was worse but we kept trying.
She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because
I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and
we broke up. I dated two other girls and the
last girl said it to my face “YOU ARE IMPOTENT”
And that was when it occurred to me this is
serious. I went to see a urologist and after the
blood test it was confirmed I had low T.
Low testosterone below normal. I couldn’t
believe I had a problem like this until I did a
sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95%
abnormality. Further test showed I had
Hypogondasim, it’s yet unknown if it’s
secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I
had gone down that road where you look back
and ask life.
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to
marry me?
Is there really a God?
Why am I a man if God won’t give me what I
need to become a man?
Every solution I have heard so for is
impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine
injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur
fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my
joystick to stay up before s*x?
Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me
at all. Apart from sexual performance secience
is yet to understand male fertility and alot of
things will be tried on me, this could take
years!!! If it’s so simple as doctor’s will easily
say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child
some never have a child and just adopt.
Why are there so many drugs and injections if
one thing works? Am at the bridge of taking my
life, I see no point making all these money and
sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me. Connect with me on LinkedIn

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