I was fortunate to be around a very rude kid few months ago, she talks too much, can’t do most things right and most importantly hates correction. This brought me to the point of finding out how rude children were raised. Trust me it is not always these children’s fault and most time it’s usually the fault of their parents. And sometimes the children’s fault when they can’t learn to be serious and teachable.
Below is five reasons ways rude children were brought up.
1. They were train to always depend on their parent.
If you had met with rude kids, you will always hear discussion like my mum said this, my dad said that.
They had been trained to always feel they can depend on their parent anytime, so they know within themselves that if anyone leaves, their parent would be there. That’s why rude kids talks anyhow, acts anyhow and most must times you can’t correct them. The best you can do to them is watch them and keep mute. You are not their priority any ways. You can choose to be a good riddance to bad rubbish by bluntly correcting them and giving them space.
2. They were trained to think they know it all.
Actually every parent teaches or make their children feel they know it all, but rude kids are exceptionally trained to be this way. Their parent would go to the extend of letting everyone around them know that they can’t sleep without them probably because they feel unsecured about not always been around or someone out there might be hurting their kids. So they train these kids to believe That they are the best in everything they do. Most often those kids might not even be good to average but trust me the feeling of being better than everyone has been installed in them.
3. They were trained to talk carelessly.
If you watch rude kids when they talk, they talk carelessly. This isn’t because they don’t know it’s bad, this is because they were trained to be like that. They don’t know when to keep quiet and when not to give a reply to a chat.
Rude kids ain’t always aware of all this acts of theirs, most at times it takes People who love and adore them to help them see that this is exactly how they act. You don’t need to fight them if you can’t stand them, the best you can do is resolve your scale of preference and put them where nothing they do mean anything to you or will affect you. That is when you won’t see them Daily anyways .
4. They were trained to think they are better off their mates
Seriously! Someone out there feels I have this friend who talks about how she is better Than everyone around. Trust me! Rude kids were trained to believe they are better than everyone on earth, and that’s one of the reasons you get all the attitudes from them.
Rude kids always have time to start arguing with people, even when it is not necessary. They always want to prove a point. ( it’s just like when you want to argue that the sun won’t rise or set) they had been configured to believe they are better off anyone around them. Most reason why rude children end up having average result even when they are good is this. If you are someone like me, the best you will do is watch them display their level of foolishness and all you need to do is keep quiet and smile when they are done.
You don’t need to fight or argue with them. All you need do is ignore them.
5. They were natural trained to be unruly
Naturally rude children do not know how to have a clear discussion with people without making a huge trouble out of it but if you can help them by ignoring them, you will do them a lot of favour. I practically decided to always keep quiet whenever I found my self in contact with any rude kids, because I have come to notice most of the way they behave is not really their fault it has a lot to do with how they were brought up. The best way to teach them a lesson is to give them the silence treatment.
You need to also let them know why you will give them space, and you should avoid giving them too much attention because they end up miss-using it.