This Same Pain… An Elegant Evil

She is the CEO of an organisation whose duty is to care for the helpless, hopeless and rejected children all over the world….she went through this pain
She is one of the richest woman in this country, she just built a house worth millions of Naria , she drives one of the best car in town, all these were earned from hard work of gossips, little news and forecasts.
I am one of her fan.
She is young and talented, searching for the answer to the unsolved puzzle that life has placed in front of us all.
They fight the inequality with what is not effective , they said we have the right to choose what we want to become but the right to pick the height to reach is not given.
She was aiming at becoming the CEO of an oil company, she chose to leave her dream for the sake of marriage… The last conversation her husband made with her was “I am tired of this marriage, I bring all things we need while you bring nothing”. Now she is in a lonely land all because of this same pain.
I plan to go for masters after my bachelor’s degree then I will pursue being an academician. Mother said what about marriage?
The mentality they input in us, you can not be influential and have unity in marriage, you can not dream too big because you are an XX chromosome.
The men says i don’t want a woman who can not afford to feed the family half square meal while I do the half, also he does not want a woman who earn a million while he earns an half that means the society forces us to be in the average.
Society is fighting for inequality but they go against the sentence ” What a man can do a woman can do better”
Life would have been easier if there were reasons to be who we plan to be and the height we plan to reach.
Didn’t the law says some right can only be taken if we are at war:
Right to live for example, that is part of the right to reach the height we wish to. They left the right to start our dreams but ceased the right to reach the height we want.
If a woman is not married and she has attain the greatest height in Africa , to Africans, she has not attain anything, they measure the female success with marriage no wonder we have many broken homes and many hurt successful young women.
Support a child to the height they want! Stop the discrimination against female success.
Marriage can be a blackmail to success but remember success can not be a blackmail to marriage.
Written by : Badmus temiloluwa

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me.

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