Life Talk


I know a lot of people has missed much articles from me. I have being very busy lately so I decided to squeezed out time to write this latest article since it is something every lady out there has faced, or will definitely face anytime or any day. In the history of female virginity, a lot of lies has being made known to people. Some of those lies were enforced on people to believe while the others were just unnecessary discussions that people may not have the desire to out go once it has being beckon upon.
I will be discussing five lies we have heard from the history of virginity.

1. There are no virgins.

I have heard this lies times without numbers, while I was growing up I have heard people say it , but it was not a serious thing to put my mind since that was nothing I really was interested in. But as time went by, I started getting curious as Whether there are virgins or not. My subsequent research made me understand that there are a lot of virgin ladies out there and the most saddening part is most of them get to lose their virginity daily due to wrong information they get acquainted with, people say there are no virgin lady out there then the virgins we have are being forced to see virginity as a thing of shame thereby forcing them to give it out in order to be like every other lady out there.

2. Virgins are saints.

Permit me to say not all virgins are saints, a person can be a virgin and not be pure. Purity is different from virginity, this is where a lot of people miss things up. Some people are virgins due to the fact that, they are not sex driving type of people, some will even tell you that having a person lay on them is the major problem but the core issue remains that not every body in the world sees sex as a thing of pleasure. Some people actually view sex as work though the truth be told, sex is work.

3. Religion place more value of virgins.

I have heard people say, Christianity and Islam places more values on women who has never had sex before, but I will love to say “no religion places anyone above the other ” the only thing that places anyone above the other in religion aspect of life is how you relate with your own God.
Virgins do not receive answer faster from God neither are virgins more special than the others in God’s presence. All of these points are psychology based belief which were drafted from our human belief.

4. Virgins are not good in bed.

I think this is based on the fact that Virgins are not practical people when it comes to sex, they are not experienced as people say but being good at sex is not about the number of times one has had sex, it is about the desire t9 want to enjoy it. Therefore I found this point unacceptable too. A lot of Virgins out there has good prospects for their future sex life and they are practical about their desire even though they might not be practical with the action of having to go have sex with someone at the moment.

5. Virgins are archaic.

Virginity is seen as something out of vogue, something almost everyone is not interested in. A lot of people out there do not even care to know whether you are or you are not. And those who are still holding on to their Virginity are seen as naive, ancient in believe or even out side this civilized world that we are in. Sex seems to be the major thing that sells so well in this errand therefore virgins are seen as weak, old or ancient but that is actually a very bitter truth every one is trying to stay away from facing.
Finally I was able to find out that we have a lot of virgins out there, most of them are hardworking beautiful ladies, they are young and not ancient but they just believe in following the right path towards a prosperous future sex life .

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Temi badmus

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me. Connect with me on LinkedIn


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