In the time of Herod people said she was being favoured, we all know we are in a land where the master of it hate productivity which is from regenerative source, she is a “Girl Child”

Right from when she is in the womb, she is being accused “Her offence then is often because she is an XY chromosome ” she is seen as weak, someone in need of protection, which makes her vulnerable, she is being taught that only the opposite gender can stand for her.

While she is being given birth to, some people will ask if it was a boy or a girl, and when she is a girl, they said the man didn’t try…they proclaim her a vessel produced from weakness. While she is growing, she is expected to take care of her junior ones, clean the house, do the cooking while the other gender is allowed to wonder around, sneak out to play football or lay carelessly around the house.

When the time comes for her to go to school, the one who is seen as being brilliant becomes a threat to the other gender, she is being bullied and abused, of course the time might come when she start growing so beautiful, then the other gender will see her as an object for sex, she is being tormented and accused by the society, her emotions is being manipulated by the opposite gender.

When it is time to love, she is the one who can not love two people, but the other gender can, if her boyfriend or husband cheats on her, ” the world has an explanation to put it to her as her fault”. Once in the University, she is being pester by lecturers and colleagues who feels she is beautiful… They are not after the beauty we all know, they are after her personality, integrity and peace. When it is time to get a job, she is not being consider the same way as the other gender, if she wears a clothe which exposes her body part, she is being accused of tempting the opposite gender, why can’t they teach the opposite gender to have control over his mind.
Have you tried to ask or study while she prefers to wear clothing of such quality?

Being a wife, she is assumed to wake up as early as five in the morning to care for the kids while the opposite gender remains in bed, From whose sperm were the kids gotten from? When the kids goes out of control, they are assumed to be her kids.

She is at fault for everything, the old man out there wants to mess with her, the young man there thinks he is better than her, her family wants to blames her, the church wants to crucify her…
The society claims they are fighting for her, but they legalize laws that makes her weaker.

When she is an engineer, a site developer, a medical professional, her work is considered for a check up.
When she is standing to want to be an island, she is seen as foolish, arrogant and irresponsible.

Mainly because she is a girl child.
The war isn’t just against the girl child, the war is against every positive thing she can be.

Temi Badmus

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me. Connect with me on LinkedIn


  1. This is what I was telling someone few days ago, If anyone messes with my girl child… It’s death straight. I won’t double think… Rubbish 😡

  2. Nice write up Temi. I feel for ladies most times, as a brother sometimes I just ensure I train my sister to be able to stand for herself

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