Four Things Every Lady Should Know.

The irresistible woman didn’t just become one in a day, it was never a day job… Of course it took time, moment of pain and trials. It not always about been the best, apart from being a great women, a beautiful lover to an awesome mother, there are four wonderful things you can add to the qualities you already have….making you a complete woman.
1. You must be formal.
Wait… Most girls always feel like once you are in a relationship, you are meant to act free and do things anyhow and when I said relationship I meant with everyone around you not just the boy- girl relationship thing, when you are formal with people it makes you more valuable. Check this situation: I was with my girlfriend and we started this conversation.
” hey Sophia, are u coming to that party….with a roll in of my eye and a tilted smile I walked away” that was not a ” NO per say”but that could also be a “NO” depending on if you are a formal person ….if you are formal at times defiantly that is a “No” it does not cause a fight. Neither should it bring about a situation of unnecessary argument. They will just gossip about you behind your back but they can’t hold anything against you.
2.Act like a queen.
I don’t keep much friends …you know why? Queens don’t keep too much friends, they only walk with people of same caliber, you don’t expect me to sit outside laughing and shouting with people, queens don’t do that! Seriously if you need anyone to place value on you, you must start by acting like a queen because you are one! Some certain people won’t even be able to talk to you and that will save you from keeping all form of garbage friendship. Garbage friendship means a form of friendship where you gain nothing that increases who you are…seriously am telling you the truth you don’t need that. If you are in a car with a guy you call ” friend” learn to make him open the door for you. That is because you are trying to train him to be a mature man. If he can’t do that with you then he can’t stay in the Queen’s world.
3.Ignore a lot.
I was involved with some certain set of people weeks ago, and we were discussing about a crucial isuue then some certain girl came and started acting out, and I was like what is wrong with this one? because naturally girls who act out are girls with low self esteem. That’s what I know we’ll… girl who act pompous are girls with low esteem; they are just trying to make themselves feel a bit good by getting on people’s nerves. everyone was angered at her pompous attitude but I just gave a less look because I knew probably she has some mental isuues with identifying who she really was.
Actually it fun when you learn how to ignore people or situation. For example, you and your boyfriend was arguing about something then you just decided to keep quiet not because you are at fault but because you needed to make a pause and put a stop to a motion that doesn’t deserve you effort, he will see you as a mature people and the truth is when you ignore people at times it makes you unpredictable!and it makes them get scared of you because they don’t know what you would do next.
4.Be crazy at times.
Some girls are so calm that people always want to take advantage of their meekness, you should be crazy at times, in such a way that people won’t want to dare rub shit on you. Look at this situation; you were walking on the road and a girl was walking towards your path then she ran into your path probably because she was too happy chatting on phone or she was in an euphoria moment and she was like ” are you blind? Didn’t you see me coming?” Your reply should be ” of course I saw you coming but I didn’t know you weren’t facing where you are going! At that moment you don’t owe her a sorry but immediately she wants to drag it to the point of making a fool of who she is, all you need do is ignore by walking away, so she can shout and everyone one walking by could thinking she was mentally disturbed.
Written by: temikupid

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me. Connect with me on LinkedIn

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