I have met so many people around the world, of course I still have the intention of meeting a lot of more people.

I have the intention of traveling wide across the globe. Having met much people, I have also learnt a lot things from the way they act, the way they talk, how they react toward things and how they understand people’s reaction towards a situation they are likely to find themselves.

Some times when you are discussing something which is highly crucial to you with others, you might not be getting the right respond, in other for you to know if they actually care about what you are saying at that moment, I will be discussing five ways people unconsciously say they don’t give a fuck about you.

1. Carrying Imaginary Animal.

Some kind of discussion can be boring and all you wish to do is excuse yourself from it, while others are demanding that you get confused along the line.
But the most important thing is “Do you care about what the person talking with you is trying to pass across to you? ”
The imaginary animal form of saying I don’t give a fuck about you occurs when you are busy discussing something important with someone and they seems to be stroking the body of an imaginary pet. Seriously they don’t give a fuck about you.
Black people hardly do this, it’s very common to the foreigners.

2. Robot walk.

This is very common among peer group, that moment when what you are saying is just so annoying or it is not making senses to them, they walk in slow but stylish way away from you, this is called robot walk and it is a sign of telling some one, “I’m not ready to listen to whatever you are talking about”

3. You say what.

I once had a friend who do this a lot, some times I keep wondering if it actually mean he doesn’t care about what people are saying or he just love giving this sign, when you are discussing with someone and they often put their hand around their ears, like often telling you to come again with that sign, then they ain’t interested in what you are saying.

4. Pocketing style.

Almost all teenagers do this, you remember that moment mum is taking to you about what you ain’t interested in and you put your whole hand inside your pocket and she is like ” stop pocketing while I’m talking to you”.
That is a sign that you ain’t interested in what she is saying.

Mature people are actually aware of this and this is why they often scold teenagers whenever they noticed this act

5. Whatever.

I did this a lot as a teenager, then whenever someone is telling me what doesn’t excite me, I find my way to giving them that hand logo that say “speak to the hand”

Anyways that was just my way of saying I’m not interested.
But the main thing is you need to know when to keep quiet and when to keep talking.

Written by:
Temi Badmus

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me. Connect with me on LinkedIn


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