Really gimmehear? Yes really dear reader. I’m not advocating for “Gayism”,same sex marriage or any forms of affairs, neither I’m I trying to give them point to proof while they choose to be who they are. I am a writer, my work stays on the path of putting the mind of the public into writing. We often judge people based on what they have done, we really do not give them excuses on why they do what they do and this is one of the greatest pain that’s affecting everyone in the world right now, I want to be right, you want to be right; nobody wants to be wrong, we all want to be a boss, ruling over someone.
Even the ruled have someone they are ruling over, so as time goes by we keep noticing everyone keeps developing odd desires, but do we really ask ourselves why they have those desires at times? I do ask myself a lot of questions, I get curious easily and I guess this is why I have answer to most puzzle I have come across in life.
I will be discussing five ways women, ladies and girls are promoting same sex marriage.
A state of dependence; a refusal to exercise initiative, not willing to work or do the stressful things to get the goodies from life. A lot of women out there If asked what kind of a man they would love to marry, seventy prevent would say they want a man who can take good care of them and the family, twenty percent would say they want to a man who will join hands together with them to provide for the family and ten percent would say they want a man they can provide for should any situation arise.
So many things being put together affect some men physiologically. Some of them feels every woman wants her man to provide for her, but same sex marriage has no such law. They are both equal, no one is seen as fragile that he should be provided for, but women across the world are misleading men into same sex marriage through the attitude of dependency. Let the men know that we can provide for them.
2. Broken relationships.
Men think straight without adding emotion or sentiments to their actions or reactions, while women are the opposite of what men are. We can hardly do anything without adding sentiments to it. Some of them can decide to make good decisions, have a good life and forget the past but the urge to be with someone who understands them perfectly in his own way, so he chooses another man. I think this is one of the reason every woman should read “Act like a lady think like a man”by Steve Harvey. I can recall vividly how a friend of mine once told her lover ” if you want someone who will think and act like you, someone as strong as you and not more emotional that you, go date a man!… So she gave him the ticket to being gay?
3. Unnecessary strictness.
A survey was carried out about which of the parent do kids tend to bond to during their teenage age, seventy percent of kids tend to bond more to the father, one major reason is because the father take care of all expenses the house needs.
Then secondly, men are more open to talk to when it comes to relationships issues which a teenage child wishes to discuss, thirdly father do not keep malice after scolding their kids, Most mothers do, it’s not hatred; I think it’s one of their principle to show they don’t like what you do.
This is also one of the things most of these people in same sex relationship consider, I want my kids very mature without being tormented by some level of strictness. I’m not saying they are right by taking this type of decision, all I’m saying is women all over the world can make a difference by working on this.
4. Bitterness /jealousy .
Guys do not like bitter or jealous ladies, same sex relationship also involves jealousy and bitterness but not as much as the normal relationship, guys don’t keep malice after fighting; expecting the other partner to beg or feel terrible before they continue their happily ever after, you can check that through friendship among guys, they don’t fight and keep malice; most times they trash each other’s shit and they move on! So many guys out there will prefer to be in a relationship where there is mutual understanding between both partners, and that might leave them to considering being gay.
5. Anal sex.
I’m not saying, don’t give your husband anal sex, I’m saying do you think it is healthy and will be helpful for his personality?when guys started having sex with ladies through the anus, a lot of absurd thoughts will of course occur in their cynic mind, what of if I try with this guy I love so much and he does understand me… Then gradually you are giving him the chance of seeing being gay as an option.
I’m not advocating for same sex marriage or relationship, I want people to see how the society as a whole is contributing to while some guys choose to be gay, while to some, it’s just some spirit they can’t explain that gets hold of them, some do have explanation and most of those explanation can be found in this article, some of them do need help…
Would you rather help or judge?
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