We are so careless nowadays that we allow every part of our body to travel long distances even the one that might cost us our lives if they don’t return on time. Three days ago I saw my neighbor’s nose in the gutter. The gutter was about a kilometer away from our house, I had to return it to her because I feared that she might run out of breath if no one returns it to her.
So many times in life we have lost a lot of opportunities and lots of good and immeasurable things due to our inability to live a quiet life and also mind our business. There are five crucial reason why you need to keep your nose to yourself and when I say “keep your nose to yourself” I mean mind your own business!!!
1. IT MAKES YOU LOOK DAFT.
The world’s population is 7.4billon. Have you ever been in a situation where you were discussing with your friend and someone from no where just
what was not his business inside your businesses, the first thing that comes to your mind is “who is this daft lady or guy? Can’t she just keep her mouth shut? If you are someone like me, she will be fully involved in that discussion for that day but that will be her last discussion ever with me. But someone who wouldn’t tolerate that will shut the person down immediately.
2. IT PISSES PEOPLE OFF .
I remember a situation where I and my big brother were having this nice discussion and this neighbor of ours knocked on the door and as usual, we greeted him and expected him to leave but he sat down knowing so well that we were having a discussion, it was so annoying that I picked up my cell phone and I started chatting so did my brother, he left when he saw we did not have his time. You don’t have to let that happen to you before you learn some courtesy.
3. IT REDUCES YOUR PERSONAL VALUE.
Nobody would just wake up one day and decide that they want to devalue your personality. It is likely you have done something unreasonable and the first thing they attack is your personality because at that point that is the only thing that ring some bell in your head if it is being trampled upon. People who don’t mind their business end up having alot of enemies around. Due to this, you think this person doesn’t respect you but the problem is you always bring your value when it is not needed…. Pause and think about that.
4. IT RIDICULES YOUR DREAM.
No sensible person wants to just play jokes around your dream if you are a person that is well esteemed. Remember you make people see you as daft, you got them pissed off, they started seeing no value in what you do and the next thing they believe is your Dream or things that are very important to you is some joke, and you end up hating them then you develop hatred for people not knowing you started it from a stupid little habit – poke nosing into people’s business. Everyone loves their privacy, even a little child can tell his daddy,
“Don’t do that”.
Everyone deserves his or her privacy and probably some law should be put into place to put anyone who violate such law into rehab…. I’m just saying anyway.
5. IT MAKES YOU LOOK LIKE A PSYCHOPATH AND SOCIOPATH.
Sociopaths are not always concerned but let me be sincere with you, some people who are Sociopathic in nature started from not minding their business, the insult they got from people hardened their heart and they don’t care anymore. You don’t want to get to that point. A Psychopath actually does care to some extent but they will rather manipulate people. They say malicious things to get what they need done, they don’t care if others are hurt or not. He who hurt is always more hurt.
I’m sorry, but take back your nose I found it in my business again.