Everyone wants to get marry… Sorry I meant married.
I read something on a friend’s status, it say ” delete all the songs on your cell phone, then leave your favorite. Then keep listening to your favorite song forever “… That’s how marriage is.

A lot of people including myself finds that scary right?

How you will end up with just one person for the rest of your entire life, some people can’t even handle that thought, they believe the possibility of them staying with one person for a lifetime is never gonna be visible, well that’s not my topic for today.

I will be discussing about five types of men you should never marry.

1.The talkative.

Men ought to be quiet, reserve and responsible but the interesting thing is not all men Possess these characteristics. Some of them posses the most terrible of the attitude you don’t want to end up spending the rest of your life with, For example, man who talks too much will always give you problem and there will be a lot of fights, arguments and hidden anger in case you are the type who will love to always keep quiet anytime he’s talking.

My point is you can not afford to marry a man who talks too much, it’s not acceptable that a man should have the inability to know when to keep quiet.

In fact a woman who talks too much is a problem, but a man who talks too much is a bigger problem, there will hardly be a reason to over look trivia matters.

2.The complacent.

It’s actually very good to be contented with whatever you have, but complacency is way out of the sensible thing you want to get involved in.

The same way I will advice a man not to try marry a materialist is the same way I will advice a woman not to marry a complacent man, a complacent man is also a material less man, he is okay with absolute poverty.

These are men, who once they see food to eat once a day, they don’t mind sleeping all day, they don’t want to go the extra mile to get more.

They are complacent with the very little they have.

3. The talk before thinking.

We have an higher percentage of Yoruba guys in this category, I’m Yoruba so it’s not tribalism abuse or probably because I don’t like Yoruba guys, it’s the pure truth.

You will notice some men just talk, talk, and talk, at the end of it when you hear what started the whole conversation and how it ended you will feel irritated.

This often happen to men who do not think before they talk, and this mostly happen to men who do not study situations, people, their reactions before talking.

Men in this category are often consider as been foolish, but the major truth is they ain’t disciplined.

A man who doesn’t think before he talks will always hurt you with his words and there will be more time for pain than happiness, so why choose such a man?

4.The Egocentric.

Everyone has Ego, so it’s not like having ego is a bad thing but been egocentric is actually bad.

An egocentric man is Mr always right, he doesn’t take corrections but wants you tell take his corrections, he doesn’t listen but wants you to always listen to him.

He is very fast to shifting blame, he doesn’t take responsibilities for his mistakes or flaws, he would rather blame others for it.

An egocentric man does not know how to say sorry genuinely, to be very sincere with you… If you end up marrying an egocentric man, you are likely to be abused physically or mentally.

5.The authoritative

A lot of people do not like been taken authority over, in fact research has shown marriages will be better and healthier if both parties always come to an amiable agreement before taking any decision, but the bad part is an authoritative husband will not give you the chance to say what you think about a decision he is making, he wants to lead and he expects you to follow blindly even if you are been lead into the ditch.

The man should always lead, this is very correct but a situation where the woman can not talk when she notice the decision might end up affecting the family or the relationship badly, You might not want to consider marry such a man.

Temi Badmus

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me. Connect with me on LinkedIn


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