Please don’t ask me rude questions!!

Fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen are for some shit you don’t wanna practice in your twenties, the moment you clock twenty, everything changes.

You don’t wanna do a lot of things you used to love doing in the past.

At that moment, the twenties attitude is taken over.

Meanwhile Someone reading is saying, but not every one gets to behave like that in their twenties, but I’m writing about those ladies with purpose, those people who know that twenties are for achievement not playing.

I will be writing about questions which are rude to ask any lady in her twenties .

1. Have you broken up?

A lot of people don’t know that ladies in their twenties really find this question rude and irritating. We all have this set of friends who feels we ain’t supposed to stay in a relationship for a long time, so they keep asking if you have broken up with your boyfriend even when you are trying to put all your trust and love in the relationship to make sure it leads to a fruitful marriage.

The goal of every woman in her twenties is to finish school, get married, build good home, and raise good kids.

So asking them if they have broken up with their lovers is annoying and rude… They won’t tell you… Just watch their reaction the next time you ask.

2. Can we have a fling?

Honestly, years before twenties are for relationships that has no destination, once you are in your twenties, the last thing you want to do is having a fling.

Sorry, in case you don’t know what a fling is.

A fling is a casual relationship where people meet and have sex, then boom! The relationship is over.

Let me say it’s more like keeping friends with benefits attitude. Twenties ain’t for such shit.

3. Can we get drunk?

I remember when I was seventeen and my cousin came home all happy and he asked my sister if they could get drunk, my sister was about twenty then, she was in a serious relationship that ended in marriage.

She gave my cousin this very hurtful look that I felt so bad for him and I told him we could get drunk.

We did got drunk and later on I understood while my sister wasn’t ready for that shit… Ladies in their twenties are always trying to maintain a healthy personality since they might not really know who’s watching or studying them.

4. Let spend anyhow?

Before my sister clocked twenty, she always spend on me and buy things anyhow.

But the moment she clocked twenty, everything changed, she started acting like she’s got a lot of responsibilities to handle, it was then I understood the questions to spending anyhow, buying anything anytime would get her angry.

I realized been in her twenties has taught her to understand life in a woman’s perspective.

5. Can we date for a specific period?

Do you know guy often ask ladies If they can date for a particular time, for example a guy can meet a lady and ask her he wants to date her for a month or so, but the whole idea is the relationship isn’t going anywhere ,the only difference between this and having a fling is, when having a fling, you might not be sure when the whole thing will crash or end but with side backup date, you are aware of when it will end.

Ladies in their twenties finds this rude and annoying… Like I said from the beginning, twenties are for achievements not games.

You can also drop any questions you know ladies in their twenties do not like been asked..

Temi Badmus

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me. Connect with me on LinkedIn


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