So everyone is saying happy new year right? Of course the year is still brand new , not full of much contaminations and negativity but before anything tries to contaminates the year, let me quickly advise you on how to make the Year 2018 more achieving, and encouraging than the previous one.

This article will discuss the set of people you really need to do away with this Year, You are not to keep malice or fight with them, but you should keep your distance, don’t allow them have influence over you or any decision you have decided to make.

1. Family member who feels you ain’t good enough.

Let me be sincere with you, whatever you lay your hands upon that you need to do can be done, as long as you can conceive it, then there is no devil stopping you from achieving it. I know we all have this one person we believe in, we always yarn for whatever they think. You don’t need negativity or negative vibes around you this year, neither do you need anyone who think you are not good enough for whatever position you are occupying. You should do away with them; meanwhile your doing away with them doesn’t mean you should keep malice with them, You just need to be in control, take charge of your own life. At the end of the day, nobody will feel the pain. Like you do neither will they enjoy the success like you do, it is your life, therefore take charge!

2. Friends who gains from you without impacting you.

Most people who has met with me in person can testify that I really do not like the idea of parasitic friends or relationship, it is not something I will love to relate with or have people around me be in such relationships.
This year is no year for such kind of relationship, you don’t need parasites around you, if the friendship or relationship is not mutualistic, then you will do yourself a great favour by staying away from them. There is no good thing as having people of the same thinking, same vibes and goals around you. Do it right.
Sometimes they don’t need to have much, but they should have the will.

3. Colleague who wastes your time.

This new year is a year to achieve plenty good things, you might need to do your self the favour of doing away with some colleagues, those who their tomorrow never come, those who do not have respect for your time, if you decide to keep plenty friends who will help you waste your time this 2018, you will end up not being able to get your goal to the fullest, how many of you noticed the previous year was fast spent? I did notice in case you didn’t.

4. Boss who just want to control you.

Let be sincere with ourselves here, if someone’s presence is not making a tangible meaning or adding any value to your existence, I believe the best you can do is give them space, You don’t need boss who all they do is control you and make your life miserable. With those kind of boss, you have two options, you either set your priorities straight if you can not survive without them or find a new life if surviving without them won’t be an issues on your level of growth. My point is you don’t really need anyone to keep you emotionally or physically down this year, you need to work and ensure you get what you aim at.

5. Lecturers who adds no values to you.

Most of you who are students, I know you have lecturers you have questions about how they became a lecturer, but do not worry, this year will be great if only you can ignore their foolishness and gain the little you need to gain from them, then ask google the rest, the best lecturer anyone can have nowadays is google.

You can not keep having friends or associates who do not add values to you, this 2018 you should learn to separate your values form your wants.

Written by :
Temi Badmus

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me. Connect with me on LinkedIn

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