Have you ever been in a situation where someone told you some other person said they don’t like you.
Or has someone ever said it to your face that they just don’t like you?
Well, you don’t have to be surprised or hurt. Not everyone will like you. Neither will the people who hate you, hate you for reasons that you deserved to be hated for. Some people will naturally hate you because they just love hating people.
I will be discussing five reasons people will naturally hate you.

1. You are exceptionally good.

When you are exceptionally good, you get more work. More payment and of course you will have a lot of things most people don’t have. Whether is it your new Paco Rabanne fragrance, your new house, your new tattoo or your life in general, you possess something they don’t — and that upsets them. Because they realize that life can be unfair, and that some people can have things or do things in life that others can’t. Perhaps they even desire what you have but don’t quite know how they themselves can achieve those things. When haters can’t figure why they lack the things they lack, or how they can get the things they lack, they become very angry individuals. To help themselves cope with this sense of frustration, they hate. This is how they deal with their feelings of inadequacy and inferiority after comparing themselves with others — by putting it on you. Yes they put the frustration on you making you a victiml instead themselves.

2. Because your life is more exciting than theirs.

Lol. A lot of people hate many people for this. Have you seen this lady or guy in your department who happens to just play and laugh with everyone, he or she is loved by almost everyone and definitely some people will chose t be her haters because they believe he or she has enough things that makes her life interesting so they hate them for you for that.

3. They are big eyed green monsters.

They are jealous, bitter and always Angry. They know you heard their voices in class, at work in your neighborhood but you will never argue or yell at them. They would cures you at every chance they have. They wish you lose your job, your friends at least you might be sad a bit but you keep showing them no recognition. So they just start to hate you for that. It is a normal thing most people go through daily.

4. Because they have nothing to do in life

And we should take pity on .them, really. Because for them, besides surfing Tumblr five hours a day, stalking other people’s Facebook and Twitter pages, and posting hateful comments on blogs and YouTube videos, they really don’t have much else to spend their time and energy on. The lowest of them stoop to writing long hate mails. All these activities give them that momentary sense of purpose and achievement in life. Perhaps your haters don’t even really dislike you that much. They just like hating on other people. Hating has sort of become a lifestyle for them. We can only wish them the best. They are people with low self esteem and the only thing that makes them feel important at times is back biting at you or making life miserable for others. You really need to pity them at times.

5. They believe you don’t deserve the things you have.

They look at your fame, your popularity, your friends, your career, etc., and think that you are not worthy of these things, because they are only looking at things at surface level. They don’t care about the hard work you had put in behind the scenes — your sacrifices, your worries, your fears and the pains you’d gone through. Because they are superficial like that and they feel why will someone like you have all that to yourself? They hate you for having a good parent, a caring boyfriend, a good relationship and mostly having a good grade.
Most of it all different people will hate you for baseless reasons. Some reasons will surely make you laugh why to some you will really want to explain how far you have gone to have those things they hate you for having.

Written by:

Temi Badmus

Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus
Temi Badmus is a Food scientist and an Art enthusiast. Her desire is to give a listening ear to people and to give an opportunity for everyone to be heard. Has any one told you that you are special? Yes, you are. You were beautifully designed, you are relevant to this generation and very special to me.

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